Meet The Team

Goddess Honey B (she/her) is a Black Feminist freak and the founder and lead facilitator of the Kink Yourself Free Retreat.

 

Just as Blackness lives at many identity intersections, she believes our wholeness is nourished through many pleasure intersections—sex, care, rest, intimacy, creativity, and delight.

 

With a practice that honors kink and BDSM as both an intimate and collective practice in self-determination, she invites participants to explore desire, embodiment, and power at the individual, communal, and collective levels.

Miss Leela (she/her) is the KYF Retreat’s Event Director and an award-winning producer with over 15 years of experience leading music festivals, large-scale conferences, and specialty events.

 

In 2023, she brought her corporate expertise into the kink community, curating innovative, sex-positive experiences. Most recently, she produced the 2025 Sex Down South Conference—the largest gathering of sex and sexuality professionals in the country.

Puff the Ganja Pup (he/him) is a proud Washington, DC native and devoted submissive to Goddess Honey B. He thrives on enhancing her life through care, cannabis, and service, and joins the retreat as our Head House Dog.

 

He believes that true strength lies in the vulnerability of submission, allowing men to explore kink and sexual freedom in fulfilling and safe ways that are outside the binds of patriarchy.

 

Puff loves talking to other Black men about his own journey as a submissive, especially the transformative power of submission, and would describe his own kink journey as enlightening, uplifting, and liberating.

Chef Rico or Ed (he/him) returns as our private chef, curating delicious bites and looking damn good while doing it.

 

Chef Rico has a passion for culinary exploration, and is dedicated to mastering the art of flavor, technique and presentation. Driven by creativity and a love for food, he is constantly learning new recipes and refining his skills in the kitchen, with the dream of one day sharing his culinary creations with the world.

 

Outside of cooking, Chef Rico also enjoys traveling and practicing martial arts.

Goddess Dallas or Chef Goddess (she/her) is our stunning assistant chef, ensuring every bite is as irresistible as she is. Chef Goddess is a High-Femme Force.

 

Our Celestial Siren blends power, pleasure, and play on the daily, keeping those with an appetite for imagination, sensation, and surrender well-fed. She’s a multi–award-nominated film star — a dream woman.

 

When our Goddess is off-set and out of the dungeon, you can find her writing, looking up human design facts, or simply in her own world. She uses every experience as a platform to elevate, evolve, and expand.

Sphinx Thee Minx (she/they) is not just our Resident Spiritualist, but also a plush, pink and primal pussycat, purring and playing in pursuit of absolute pleasure. She is a service submissive, bootblack, pet, and diviner.

 

In her role as diviner, Sphinx uses tarot, herbs, and curated rituals and remedies focused on unearthing the blocks that stop us from experiencing pleasure, while empowering querents to take their pleasure ritualization into their own hands.

 

Outside of kink, you can talk to Sphinx about the Real Housewives, gummi worms, tarot cards, music and scary movies.

Mister BunHi (they/them) joins the Kink Yourself Free Retreat for the second year--but this time, as full staff! They are a bodyworker and the founder of Godxx Touch, with seven years of experience providing traditional therapeutic massage and erotic bodywork.

 

Their practice includes sensual massage, nuru massage, and other touch-based offerings, with a commitment to caring for bodies of all kinds and all sizes. At Kink Yourself Free, Mister BunHi will support the team as Event Assistant and offer massage to participants seeking relaxation, care, and deeper embodied connection.